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Is Love Sex or Is Sex Love?

Sex is not love nor love is sex. People have sex even without being in love. Being in love is not expressed and defined by one’s engagement in sexual activities. Men and women respond differently to sex. A man may not necessary love a woman but still can sleep with her. Wise up woman. Using sex to manipulate a man works but temporarily. It is self-deception to think that giving him sex will make him love and be faithful to you.

True Love will never force you to engage in sex. A genuine man is he who subscribes to morals, values and ethics that govern sexuality. Absence of sex does not change his mind. But this is the opposite of a fake man, a user, and quake who pushes you to ‘prove your love’ by sleeping with him. Such a man is a demon in disguise; moreover dating never assures marriage. If he sticks to you for the sex, ‘better sex’ will take him away from you.

Making yourself his ‘sex slave’ is being unwise. Love will never shame or degrade you. If you made the mistake of trying to use sex to buy a man, now is the time to re-assess your relationship and build it on the right foundation.

 If he ever marries you because ‘the sex is good’, it will be fatal to your marriage. Let him get married to you because he loves you, honors you, feels a strong emotional, mental and spiritual connection with you and wants you to spend the rest of his life with you.

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Ollus Ndhom

Ollus Ndhom is the editorial chief at MuAfrica, a newbie online magazine. He is a self-driven and assertive youth with a belief in the power of words. His hobbies include writing commentaries, composing poems and serving God.

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